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Sexual Health & Clinical Help

A starting point for finding informed, affirming care—from routine testing to specialist support. These resources lead to established directories and official clinic locators rather than ratings of individual clinicians.

Where to begin

What kind of provider should I see?

You do not need to identify the diagnosis or perfect specialist yourself. A primary-care clinician can begin most evaluations and make a referral. If one of the routes below clearly matches your concern, it is also reasonable to start there.

A good first stop for almost anyone

Primary care or family medicine

Start here when you are unsure, have several symptoms, or suspect medications, mood, sleep, blood pressure, diabetes, circulation, or general health may be involved.

  • Low desire or a change in sexual function
  • Medication review and initial laboratory testing
  • STI screening, contraception, and preventive care
  • Referral to the appropriate specialist

Urinary & reproductive anatomy

Urologist

Urologists diagnose and treat the urinary tract in people of all genders and the penis, prostate, scrotum, and testicles.

  • Erectile or ejaculation concerns
  • Penis, prostate, scrotal, or testicular symptoms
  • Urinary symptoms or recurrent urinary infections
  • Male infertility and some low-testosterone evaluations

Vulvar, vaginal & reproductive care

Gynecologist or OB-GYN

Gynecologic clinicians provide cervical screening and evaluate concerns involving the vulva, vagina, cervix, uterus, ovaries, periods, menopause, and reproductive health.

  • Pap or HPV testing and pelvic exams when indicated
  • Dryness, discharge, itching, bleeding, or vaginal health
  • Low desire, arousal changes, or pain during sex
  • Contraception, fertility, pregnancy, and menopause
Read ACOG’s sexual-health guidance ↗

Hormone-related concerns

Endocrinologist

An endocrinologist may become involved when symptoms or initial testing suggest a testosterone, estrogen, thyroid, prolactin, pituitary, diabetes, or other hormone-related condition.

  • Persistently abnormal hormone tests
  • Low desire with other hormonal symptoms
  • Complex menopause or hypogonadism concerns
  • Fertility concerns linked to hormones

Low testosterone is diagnosed from symptoms plus appropriately timed, repeat testing—not from symptoms alone.

Fertility & preservation

Fertility specialist

Fertility care often involves different specialists depending on the reproductive organs, contributing factors, and family-building goals involved.

  • Reproductive endocrinologist for ovulation, ovaries, uterus, pregnancy loss, or assisted reproduction
  • Reproductive urologist for sperm, testes, ejaculation, or male-factor concerns
  • Fertility preservation before cancer treatment, surgery, or gender-affirming care
  • Donor gametes, embryos, or gestational-carrier planning

Skin changes & recurring symptoms

Dermatologist or vulvovaginal specialist

Genital skin is skin. A dermatologist—sometimes working with gynecology or urology—can evaluate symptoms that persist or do not respond to routine treatment.

  • Rashes, sores, lesions, or changes in color or texture
  • Persistent vulvar itching, burning, tearing, or pain
  • Recurring symptoms that have been treated as infection
  • Inflammatory or chronic genital skin conditions
Read ACOG’s vulvar-health guidance ↗

Complex or overlapping concerns

Sexual-medicine specialist

These clinicians may come from urology, gynecology, internal medicine, psychiatry, or another specialty and pursue additional training focused on sexual function.

  • Persistent desire, arousal, orgasm, or pain concerns
  • Symptoms that have not improved with initial care
  • Concerns involving both medical and relational factors
  • A need for coordinated multidisciplinary care

Muscles, pain & function

Pelvic-health physical therapist

Pelvic-health PTs assess muscles, movement, pain, and function. They often work alongside gynecology, urology, colorectal care, or sexual medicine.

  • Pelvic or genital pain and painful penetration
  • Pelvic-floor tension or weakness
  • Bladder or bowel control concerns
  • Recovery after childbirth, injury, or surgery

Anal & rectal concerns

Primary care, gastroenterology, or colorectal surgery

Primary care can assess many anal symptoms. Gastroenterologists treat digestive conditions; colon and rectal surgeons provide both nonsurgical and surgical care for the anus and rectum.

  • Hemorrhoids, fissures, pain, itching, or prolapse
  • Rectal bleeding or changes in bowel habits
  • Persistent symptoms or a possible procedure
  • Concerns that affect comfort during sexual activity
Read ASCRS hemorrhoid guidance ↗

Appearance or elective procedures

Medical evaluation before cosmetic care

Begin with a gynecologist, urologist, dermatologist, or colorectal specialist familiar with the body area. They can identify normal variation, rule out a medical condition, and explain functional consequences before an elective procedure.

  • Ask whether treatment is medically necessary or elective
  • Verify board certification, facility accreditation, and procedure-specific experience
  • Ask about sensation, scarring, pain, sexual function, revision, and recovery
  • Be cautious of guaranteed results and invented “defects” used in marketing
Read ACOG’s safety guidance ↗
Seek urgent care for urgent symptoms

Do not wait for a directory appointment for severe or rapidly worsening pain, sudden testicular pain, heavy bleeding, major injury, inability to urinate, fainting, fever with significant pelvic or genital pain, or other symptoms that feel like an emergency.

Testing & prevention

STI testing and clinic locators

Find confidential testing, vaccination, prevention, and treatment services. Ask which sites the clinic tests based on the kinds of sex you have—not only whether it offers a general “STI panel.”

United States

CDC GetTested

Search by ZIP code for HIV, STI, and viral-hepatitis testing, vaccines, and free or low-cost options.

Find a testing site ↗
United States

Planned Parenthood

Locate health centers offering sexual and reproductive health services; available services differ by center.

Find care ↗

HIV prevention & care

PrEP, PEP, and HIV services

PrEP helps prevent HIV before exposure; PEP is emergency medication after a possible exposure and must be started within 72 hours—the sooner, the better. HIV clinicians and infectious-disease specialists provide ongoing treatment and care.

United States

HIV.gov Services Locator

Find PrEP providers, PEP information, HIV testing, treatment, pharmacies, and other support services.

Find HIV services ↗
United States

HIV.gov PrEP Guidance

Understand PrEP options, coverage, and questions to discuss with a health care provider.

Learn about PrEP ↗

Remote access

Online sexual-health and telehealth services

Telehealth may help with consultations, prescriptions, follow-up, and some at-home testing. Some symptoms, exposures, exams, or procedures still require in-person care.

Participating U.S. states

Planned Parenthood Direct

Explore app-based sexual and reproductive health services, including options that may be available without an office visit.

Explore online care ↗
United States

HRSA health centers

Find federally funded health centers and ask the location directly about telehealth, fees, and sexual-health services.

Find a health center ↗

Community-aware care

Kink-aware and non-monogamy-aware professionals

These independent directories include professionals who describe their own experience or interest. Ask specific questions about training and approach before booking.

International listings

Kink Aware Professionals

A directory of medical, mental-health, legal, and other professionals who identify as knowledgeable about diverse sexualities.

Search KAP ↗
International listings

Polyamory-Friendly Professionals

Browse professionals who state that they are sensitive to polyamorous people, relationships, and families.

Search the directory ↗

Specialist medicine

Sexual-medicine specialists

Sexual-medicine clinicians may evaluate concerns such as sexual pain, arousal, orgasm, erection, ejaculation, libido, or medication-related changes.

International listings

ISSM Find a Provider

The International Society for Sexual Medicine’s public directory of sexual-health providers.

Find a provider ↗

Pelvic & abdominal care

Pelvic-health providers

Pelvic-health physical therapy can address pain, pelvic-floor function, bladder or bowel concerns, and recovery. Confirm that a clinician treats people with your anatomy and specific concern.

Primarily United States

APTA Pelvic Health PT Locator

Search opt-in listings from members of the Academy of Pelvic Health Physical Therapy.

Find a pelvic-health PT ↗

Therapy & emotional health

Sex therapists and mental-health professionals

Sex therapy is talk therapy; it does not include sexual contact with a therapist. Look for an independently licensed mental-health professional whose training fits your needs.

United States & international listings

AASECT Referral Directory

Locate AASECT-certified sexuality educators, counselors, and therapists by state or country.

Search AASECT ↗

Affirming care

LGBTQ+-affirming care

Affirming care should respect your name, pronouns, body, identity, partners, privacy, and goals without making assumptions.

United States & Canada

LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory

A free public provider directory created by GLMA with the Tegan and Sara Foundation.

Search affirming care ↗

Reproductive health

Reproductive and contraception services

Compare methods, costs, privacy, follow-up, and what is legally available where you live. A qualified clinician can help account for your health history and goals.

United States

Bedsider Health Center Finder

Find nearby birth-control providers through Bedsider, a program of the nonprofit Power to Decide.

Find contraception care ↗
United States

AbortionFinder

Search verified abortion providers and practical-support resources by age and location.

Find verified services ↗

Midlife sexual health

Menopause-informed care

Perimenopause and menopause can affect desire, arousal, vaginal and vulvar tissue, comfort during sex, sleep, mood, and urinary health. Primary care or gynecology can help; a menopause-focused practitioner may be useful for complex or persistent concerns.

United States, Canada & international listings

The Menopause Society

Search Society members and practitioners holding its menopause-care certification. Confirm credentials and fit independently.

Find a practitioner ↗

Fertility & preservation

Fertility specialists

A reproductive endocrinology and infertility specialist commonly evaluates ovulation, ovaries, uterus, pregnancy loss, and assisted reproduction. A reproductive urologist commonly evaluates sperm, testicular, ejaculation, and other male-factor concerns.

United States & international member listings

ASRM Find a Health Professional

Search practicing members of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine by location and area of practice. Membership or a self-described specialty is not proof of subspecialty certification.

Find fertility care ↗

Skin, pain & persistent symptoms

Vulvar and vulvovaginal specialists

Persistent itching, burning, sores, lesions, skin changes, pain, or recurring symptoms may warrant gynecology, dermatology, or a clinician focused on vulvovaginal disorders.

International listings

ISSVD Global Specialty Listing

A reference list of vulvar specialty clinics and providers from the International Society for the Study of Vulvovaginal Disease. ISSVD states that listings are not verified or recommended.

View specialty listings ↗

Confidential support

Sexual assault and crisis resources

You deserve support. A hotline advocate can discuss medical care, evidence collection, safety, and local services without requiring you to make a police report.

United States · 24/7

RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline

Call 800-656-HOPE (4673), chat online, or text HOPE to 64673 for confidential support.

Contact RAINN ↗
International

NO MORE Global Directory

Find domestic and sexual-violence support services by country or territory.

Find local support ↗

Before you book

Choose and verify a provider.

A directory is a starting point—not proof of licensure, specialist training, quality, or fit. Directory profiles are often written by providers themselves.

01

Confirm credentials

Search the relevant state or provincial licensing board using the provider’s full name. Confirm the license is active and review any public disciplinary history. U.S. physician records are also available through DocInfo.

02

Ask about relevant experience

Name the care you need and ask how often they work with it, what training they have, which populations they serve, and whether they offer trauma-informed, kink-aware, CNM-aware, or LGBTQ+-affirming care.

03

Clarify privacy and cost

Ask about insurance, self-pay price, lab fees, telehealth eligibility, cancellation policies, and how visits appear on statements or explanation-of-benefits documents—especially if someone else holds the insurance plan.

04

Assess consent and fit

A provider should explain options, answer questions, request permission before exams, and accept a pause or refusal. You can ask for a support person, interpreter, chaperone, or different provider, subject to local policy and availability.

05

Prepare a useful history

Bring a symptom timeline, medication and supplement list, relevant test results or surgeries, and notes about what makes symptoms better or worse. Describe changes in desire, erections, periods, pain, discharge, orgasm, or urinary function only as relevant to you.

06

Name your goal

Tell the provider what outcome matters: comfort, pleasure, fertility, prevention, function, reassurance, diagnosis, or understanding your options. If concerns are dismissed or care is not helping, ask what the next step is or seek a second opinion.

Important

This hub is educational and is not medical, mental-health, legal, diagnostic, or clinical guidance. Orgasmaphoria does not verify, endorse, employ, or supervise listed organizations or providers. Services, laws, eligibility, cost, and availability can change; confirm details directly before relying on a listing.