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A searchable worldwide guide to kink community spaces, lifestyle clubs, fetish events, clothing-optional stays, and couples cruises.

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102 locations

United States · Austin

Austin Jacks

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A men's JO social group in Austin with private scheduled gatherings. Review its eligibility, RSVP, consent and behavioral boundaries and use only the location supplied after legitimate registration.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Registration and event admission apply
Location
Private Austin event location shared with registered attendees

United States · Land O' Lakes

bare RV Resort

Naturist resort
Naturist

An adults-only clothing-optional RV resort offering sites, rentals and resort amenities. Verify booking, day-visit and conduct rules directly.

Access
Booking or day visit
Membership
Reservations or visitor admission apply
Location
6901 Caliente Blvd, Land O' Lakes, FL 34637

United States · Raleigh / Durham

BATE: Raleigh

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A private men's JO event group serving the Raleigh–Durham area. Venue information is protected; review the organizer's RSVP, eligibility and conduct rules.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Registration and event fees apply
Location
Private Triangle-area venues shared with registered attendees

United States · Charlotte area

Camelot Social Club

Event producer
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A Charlotte-area lifestyle organizer producing monthly hotel and venue parties rather than operating a permanent club. Check the current listing for the host venue, tickets, guest categories and required waiver.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
Advance ticketing and a signed attendee waiver apply
Location
Rotating Charlotte-area and regional venues

United States · Cocoa

Club 3X

Lifestyle nightclub
Lifestyle / swingers

A Space Coast lifestyle social club and nightlife venue. Event schedules and rules can change; review the official site before planning a visit.

Access
Door or event
Membership
Current access terms should be confirmed
Location
226 W King St #190, Cocoa, FL 32922

United States · Las Vegas

Club 5150

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A private Las Vegas lifestyle club with a current official web presence. Because public details are limited, confirm active dates, screening, location and attendance rules directly before making plans.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and event-specific admission apply
Location
Private Las Vegas location supplied to confirmed attendees

United States · Cleveland

Club Eros

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A long-running Cleveland private lifestyle club with themed parties and equipped social and play areas. New guests have earlier arrival cutoffs, and attendance eligibility varies by membership category and event.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private membership, event fees and 21+ photo ID requirements apply
Location
1317 E 33rd St, Door A, Cleveland, OH 44114

United States · Cleveland

Club Escape

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A Cleveland-area private lifestyle club with member events and its own current online presence. Confirm the location, membership process, identification requirements and nightly admission policy directly.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and event admission apply
Location
Cleveland area (confirm arrival details with the club)

United States · Los Angeles

Club Joi

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A private Los Angeles lifestyle club running approved-member events. Registration, current admission details and event-specific location information are handled through the official site.

Access
Members only
Membership
Approval is required before attending; joining at the door is not offered
Location
Los Angeles, CA 90015 (exact event details are member-gated)

United States · Jacksonville

Club Kink Jacksonville

Community space
BDSM & kinkEducationLifestyle / swingers

A private Jacksonville adult lifestyle and kink club with social events, education and equipped play areas. New guests must follow its orientation and membership process and review current event eligibility.

Access
Members only
Membership
Orientation is required before private-club membership and event admission
Location
6221 Samuel Wells Dr, Suite 1500, Jacksonville, FL 32216

United States · Columbus

Club Princeton

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A private Columbus lifestyle club with a member portal and scheduled themed events. Review its membership application, club policies, ticketing and event-specific audience rules before attending.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership registration and event admission apply
Location
425 S Princeton Ave, Columbus, OH 43223

United States · Dallas

Colette Dallas

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A private on-premise social nightclub for couples, single women and selected single men who are active in or curious about the lifestyle. Review its current events, rules and guest eligibility before attending.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club registration, ID and event admission are required
Location
Dallas, Texas (confirm current location with the club)

United States · New Orleans

Colette New Orleans

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A private on-premise lifestyle nightclub serving couples, single women and selected single men. Admission categories and themes vary; use the official event page and club rules when planning.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club registration, ID and event admission are required
Location
New Orleans, Louisiana (confirm current location with the club)

United States · Kissimmee

Cypress Cove Nudist Resort

Naturist resort
Naturist

A family naturist resort with lodging, recreation and day-visitor access. It is included as a clothing-optional destination, not as a swingers or sexual-play venue; follow its conduct policy.

Access
Booking or day visit
Membership
Day fees or lodging; naturist-club terms apply
Location
4425 Pleasant Hill Rd, Kissimmee, FL 34746

United States · Denver

Denver Jacks

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A Denver men's JO club holding registered group events. The gathering location is private; consult the organizer's current eligibility, admission, consent and conduct rules before registering.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Registration and event admission apply
Location
Private Denver event location shared with registered attendees

United States · Largo

Deviance Tampa Bay

Community space
BDSM & kinkEducationLifestyle / swingers

A Tampa Bay community venue hosting classes, munches, themed events and equipped play space. Eligibility and membership differ by event; review the calendar and house rules.

Access
Mixed access
Membership
Many play events require membership; some classes and socials are open
Location
12850 91st St #1207, Largo, FL 33773

United States · Hudson

Eden RV Resort

Naturist resort
Naturist

A clothing-optional RV resort and community in Florida's Nature Coast region. Confirm visitor access, reservations and resort conduct policies before arrival.

Access
Booking or membership
Membership
RV, rental and visitor arrangements vary
Location
13220 Houston Ave, Hudson, FL 34667

United States · Tampa

Eyz Wide Shut

Lifestyle nightclub
Lifestyle / swingers

A Tampa-area adult lifestyle nightclub with bar service and themed social nights. Consult the official calendar for couples, singles, dress and admission policies.

Access
Door or ticket
Membership
Check the current guest and membership policy
Location
8504 E Adamo Dr, Tampa, FL 33619

United States · Fort Lauderdale / South Florida

Fetish Factory Events

Event producer
BDSM & kinkFetish nightlife

A long-running South Florida fetish retailer and event producer associated with themed parties at changing venues. Check the current calendar for location, dress code and ticket requirements.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
No standing venue membership; event terms apply
Location
Rotating South Florida venues

United States · Sandy Hook

Gunnison Beach

Nude beach
Clothing optionalNaturist

A traditional clothing-optional area at South Gunnison within the National Park Service's Sandy Hook unit. Follow current federal park guidance, stay within the traditional-use area and respect photography, wildlife and beach-safety rules.

Access
Public beach
Membership
No membership; National Park Service access and parking rules apply
Location
Area G, Sandy Hook, Gateway National Recreation Area, Highlands, NJ 07732

United States · New York City

Hacienda

Community space
EducationLifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A membership-based New York sex-positive community offering play parties, workshops and social programming. The venue location is protected; prospective guests should review its application, consent standards and event rules.

Access
Members only
Membership
Application-based membership and event booking apply
Location
Private New York City location shared with approved members

United States · Miami-Dade County

Haulover Park Clothing Optional Beach

Nude beach
Clothing optionalNaturist

The northern section of this county park beach, between lifeguard towers 12 and 16, is officially clothing optional and family oriented. Nudity is not consent to photography or sexual activity; obey posted park and ocean-safety rules.

Access
Public beach
Membership
No membership; parking fees and park rules apply
Location
10800 Collins Ave, Miami Beach, FL 33154

United States · Seattle

Kink Center

Community space
BDSM & kinkEducation

A nonprofit, accessibility-minded community center in Capitol Hill offering tours, classes, socials and play events. Check each listing for age, ticket and participation requirements.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
No general public membership is advertised
Location
814 E Pike St, Seattle, WA 98122

United States · Downtown Los Angeles

LAX Jacks

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A private men's JO club with recurring events in Downtown Los Angeles. Registration protects the venue location; consult the official rules for attendance boundaries and consent expectations.

Access
Members only
Membership
Annual membership, trial and event-fee options are listed by the organizer
Location
Private Downtown Los Angeles studio shared after registration

United States · Miami

Miami Velvet

Lifestyle nightclub
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A large private, on-premise lifestyle nightclub with themed Friday and Saturday events, DJs, lounge areas and private spaces. It welcomes couples and selected singles under event-specific admission rules.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and nightly admission apply; first-time tourist offers may be available
Location
3901 NW 77th Ave, Miami, FL 33166

United States · Hampton Roads / Norfolk

Neptune Jacks

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A men's JO social group holding registered events in the Hampton Roads area. Details and locations are shared with attendees; check current eligibility and participation rules.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Event registration applies
Location
Private Hampton Roads event venues

United States · New York City

New York Jacks

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A consent-focused men's JO social group with scheduled events and private location details. Review its participation boundaries, RSVP process and current rules before registering.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Optional membership may reduce event fees
Location
Private New York City venue shared with confirmed attendees

United States · Portland

PDX Sanctuary

Community space
BDSM & kinkLifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A Portland event space serving a diverse sex-positive and LGBTQ+ community with socials, education and play events. Audience, registration and participation rules vary, so review the official listing for each event.

Access
Door or ticket
Membership
Registration and event ticketing apply; requirements vary by event
Location
33 NW 9th Ave, Portland, OR 97209

United States · Philadelphia

Philadelphia Jacks

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A Philadelphia men's JO club with private recurring gatherings. Consult the organizer for current eligibility, RSVP procedures, participation boundaries and the confirmed event location.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Registration and event admission apply
Location
Private Philadelphia event location shared with registered attendees

United States · Seattle

Rain City Jacks

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A nonprofit men's JO club offering members-only gatherings in Seattle. Its site explains eligibility, behavioral boundaries, membership and event logistics.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership is required
Location
Private Seattle venue shared with members

United States · Las Vegas

Red Rooster

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A long-running Las Vegas on-premise lifestyle club with recurring parties, social areas and private play rooms. It publishes age, ID, BYOB and guest-category policies; verify them before arrival.

Access
Door or event
Membership
Door donation and event-specific admission rules apply
Location
6405 Greyhound Ln, Las Vegas, NV 89122

United States · Philadelphia

Saints & Sinners Philadelphia

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A private Philadelphia-area lifestyle club with themed member events. Review the official calendar and current membership, dress, ID and guest-category requirements before planning a visit.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and event admission apply
Location
Philadelphia area (confirm the current location with the club)

United States · Littleton

Scarlet Ranch

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A private Denver-area lifestyle organization holding recurring events at Squirrel Creek Lodge. The official calendar separates admission categories and pricing; review membership, ID and event rules before visiting.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and event admission apply
Location
8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton, CO 80125

United States · Kissimmee

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa / Club Secret

Resort & club
Clothing optionalLifestyle / swingers

An adults-only lifestyle resort with accommodations, pool areas and Club Secret nightlife. Day access, event access and resort policies vary, so confirm the current calendar and admission rules.

Access
Booking or event
Membership
Hotel booking, day pass or event admission may apply
Location
2145 E Irlo Bronson Memorial Hwy, Kissimmee, FL 34744

United States · Santa Ana / Orange County

SoCal BDSM Dungeon

Private playspace
BDSM & kink

A private Orange County BDSM playspace available for rentals and selected events. Contact the operator for current availability, screening, rules and the confirmed address.

Access
Reservation or event
Membership
Event or private-rental terms vary
Location
Santa Ana, Orange County, CA (details provided with booking)

United States · Loxahatchee Groves

Sunsport Gardens

Naturist resort
Naturist

A naturist resort and campground offering day visits, stays and community events. Naturism is not consent to sexual activity; review photography and behavior rules.

Access
Booking or day visit
Membership
Visitor fees, camping or membership options
Location
14125 N Rd, Loxahatchee Groves, FL 33470

United States · Los Angeles

Tentaciones LA

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A private Latin lifestyle community with member profiles, social features and optional in-person gatherings. Verify admission, identity-check and event-location procedures directly.

Access
Members only
Membership
Verified 21+ membership community
Location
Los Angeles area (gathering details are shared with approved members)

United States · Washington

The Crucible

Community space
BDSM & kinkEducationLifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A volunteer-run private club serving BDSM, swinger and other alternative-sexuality communities through play parties, education and social events. Read its membership, identification, consent and event-specific rules before attending.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership, government-issued ID and event admission apply
Location
412 V St NE, Washington, DC 20002

United States · Las Vegas

The Green Door

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A Las Vegas on-premise social club for consenting adults with late-night hours and themed events. Consult the official pricing, FAQ and calendar for current ID, guest-category and admission requirements.

Access
Door or event
Membership
Admission pricing and guest-category rules vary
Location
Las Vegas, NV (confirm the current street address on the official site)

United States · Gastonia / Charlotte area

The LoftNC

Private playspace
BDSM & kinkEducation

A private members-only BDSM club serving the Charlotte region with play events and community programming. Confirm its current orientation, membership, location and event rules through the official site.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and event admission apply; check orientation requirements
Location
Private Gastonia-area location shared through the club

United States · Portland

The Velvet Rope

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A long-running on-premise Portland social club with scheduled lifestyle and sex-positive events. Check the event calendar, membership process, dress code and audience rules for the night you plan to attend.

Access
Members only
Membership
Annual club membership and nightly admission apply
Location
3533 SE Cesar E Chavez Blvd, Portland, OR 97202

United States · Orlando

The Woodshed Orlando

Community space
BDSM & kinkEducation

A private alternative-lifestyle community center and dungeon focused on education, connection and events. New visitors should review membership, orientation and conduct requirements.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and event admission apply
Location
6431 Milner Blvd Suite 4, Orlando, FL 32809

United States · North Hollywood

Threshold Society

Community space
BDSM & kinkEducation

A nonprofit, volunteer-led BDSM education and community center offering orientations, classes, support groups, social events and member programming. Review each event's eligibility and house rules before attending.

Access
Mixed access
Membership
Orientation or membership applies to some programming
Location
11300 Hartland St, North Hollywood, CA 91605

United States · Atlanta

Trapeze Club Atlanta

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

An established private, on-premise Atlanta lifestyle club with social areas, dining, themed nights and a clothing-free back area. It is BYOB and enforces a dress code; check the current schedule and category-specific admission rules.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and a nightly user fee are required; attendance rules vary for couples and singles
Location
4470 Commerce Dr SW, Atlanta, GA 30336

United States · Tamarac / Fort Lauderdale

Trapeze Club South Florida

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

The South Florida branch of Trapeze, operating as a private on-premise lifestyle club with themed events, social space and a dress code. Confirm current couples and singles access before traveling.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and a nightly user fee are required; attendance rules vary by night
Location
5213 N State Road 7, Tamarac, FL 33319

United Kingdom · Edinburgh

Afterdark Edinburgh

Lifestyle club
BDSM & kinkLifestyle / swingers

A private Edinburgh swinging and kink club established in 2022, with social lounges, themed events and dedicated play spaces. Membership is arranged at the first visit.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private membership is completed on the first visit; event admission applies
Location
Edinburgh, Scotland (contact the club for current directions)

France · Vielle-Saint-Girons

Arna Nature

Naturist resort
Clothing optionalNaturist

A family naturist holiday destination in the Landes pine forest offering camping, rentals, pools, a spa and direct Atlantic beach access. It is listed for naturist travel rather than sexual activity; check seasonal dates and conduct policies.

Access
Resort booking
Membership
Accommodation or campsite booking applies
Location
5006 Route de Pichelèbe, 40560 Vielle-Saint-Girons, France

Thailand · Bangkok

Barefeet Naturist Resort

Naturist resort
Clothing optionalNaturist

A small naturist resort in Bangkok offering accommodation and visitor access. It is a naturist hospitality property, not a sexual-play venue; confirm reservations, day access and conduct expectations directly.

Access
Booking or day visit
Membership
Accommodation booking or day admission applies
Location
Bangkok, Thailand (use the resort's current arrival instructions)

At sea · Caribbean & international itineraries

Bliss Cruise

Lifestyle cruise
Clothing optionalLifestyle / swingers

Couples-only, full-ship lifestyle charters with themed entertainment and designated clothing-optional areas. Future sailings use different ships, ports and itineraries; consult the official sailing page and behavior policy.

Access
Cruise booking
Membership
Couples-only full-ship charter; booking required
Location
Departure port varies by sailing

New Zealand · Auckland

CCK Auckland

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

An Auckland adult lifestyle club and lounge bar offering scheduled events for different guest categories. Its published guidance emphasizes consent, privacy and checking the admission rules for the specific night.

Access
Door or reservation
Membership
Contact or reservation is recommended; event eligibility varies
Location
246C Hobson St, Auckland CBD, Auckland 1010, New Zealand

United Kingdom · Darlaston / Walsall

Chameleons Darlaston

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

One of Chameleons’ sauna-oriented lifestyle clubs, offering social, spa and play facilities for couples and singles under night-specific rules. Confirm the current schedule and location guidance.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and admission apply
Location
Darlaston, West Midlands, England

United Kingdom · Newport

Chameleons Newport

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

The Welsh Chameleons lifestyle club, using a sauna-club format with social and play facilities. Event eligibility and entry prices differ, so consult the live calendar before traveling.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and admission apply
Location
Newport, Wales (check official directions)

Australia · Belmont / Perth

Club 103

Lifestyle club
BDSM & kinkLifestyle / swingers

A purpose-built Perth adult social club with lifestyle parties, social events, play rooms and an equipped dungeon. It is BYO; check the current timetable, guest categories, consent rules and entry terms.

Access
Door or event
Membership
Session and event admission rules vary
Location
103 Abernethy Rd, Belmont WA 6104, Australia

Australia · Melbourne

Club Gemini

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A long-established Melbourne adult and swingers party organizer operating at a dedicated-style private venue. Review the individual party for guest categories, BYO details and house rules.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
Advance event booking and audience-specific admission apply
Location
Private Melbourne venue shared with confirmed guests

Canada · Mississauga

Club M4

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A private Toronto-area lifestyle club with scheduled social and themed nights. Membership is required, with attendance and admission rules varying by event.

Access
Members only
Membership
Everyone entering must hold club membership; door fees or tickets also apply
Location
1989A Dundas St E, Mississauga, ON, Canada

Australia · Melbourne

Club Nine Melbourne

Private social group
BDSM & kinkLifestyle / swingers

A small, invite-only Melbourne lifestyle club producing curated parties for couples and selected singles. The organizer emphasizes privacy, consent, guest vetting and intentionally limited attendance.

Access
Members only
Membership
Invite-only membership and vetting are required
Location
Private inner-east Melbourne venue

South Africa · Johannesburg area

Club Poizon

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A South African private adult lifestyle and swingers club with scheduled member events. Verify its current location, guest categories, membership and safety rules directly before attending.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and event admission apply
Location
Private Gauteng location supplied by the club

Canada · Calgary

Club R Calgary

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A private members-only lifestyle club producing curated parties, mixers and socials in Calgary. Edmonton is described as a future expansion rather than a currently operating location.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and event tickets or fees apply
Location
Calgary, Alberta (details are supplied for member events)

United Kingdom · Swinton / Manchester

Cupids

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A Greater Manchester adult lifestyle venue with a licensed bar, themed events and separate membership arrangements for couples, single women, trans guests and single men.

Access
Members only
Membership
21+ membership and guest-list or event admission requirements apply
Location
Swinton, Greater Manchester, England

At sea · Mediterranean, Caribbean & international itineraries

Desire Cruises

Lifestyle cruise
Clothing optionalLifestyle / swingers

Couples-only lifestyle cruise charters combining luxury itineraries, entertainment and designated clothing-optional experiences. Ships, ports, dates and policies vary by sailing and should be confirmed on the official site.

Access
Cruise booking
Membership
Couples-only charter booking
Location
Departure port varies by sailing

Mexico · Puerto Morelos

Desire Riviera Maya Pearl Resort

Lifestyle resort
Clothing optionalLifestyle / swingers

A couples-only, all-inclusive Desire property in Puerto Morelos with clothing-optional and lifestyle-oriented amenities. Confirm current resort policies and inclusions with the operator.

Access
Resort booking
Membership
Couples-only resort booking; no public membership
Location
Costera Norte, Lote 1, SM 10, MZ 26, Puerto Morelos, Quintana Roo, Mexico

Mexico · Puerto Morelos

Desire Riviera Maya Resort

Lifestyle resort
Clothing optionalLifestyle / swingers

A couples-only, all-inclusive, clothing-optional resort with themed entertainment and lifestyle-oriented areas. Review the resort's current couples policy, conduct rules and transfer details before booking.

Access
Resort booking
Membership
Couples-only resort booking; no public membership
Location
Carretera Cancún–Puerto Morelos Km 27.5, Puerto Morelos, Quintana Roo 77580, Mexico

Australia · Caddens / Western Sydney

Dragons Pleasure Lounge

Private social group
Lifestyle / swingers

A curated Western Sydney lifestyle-event community focused primarily on couples in its stated age range. Its private venue and guest-selection process require advance approval.

Access
Members only
Membership
Application, vetting and event booking apply
Location
Caddens, NSW (private venue details supplied to approved guests)

Australia · Sydney

EAGLE Sydney

Event producer
Fetish nightlifeLGBTQ+

A community-focused pop-up fetish and leather bar series in Sydney. Consult the live event page for its current host venue, audience, ticketing and consent policy.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
No public membership is listed
Location
Pop-up events; check the current Sydney venue

Ireland · Dublin

EJ’s Club Dublin

Private social group
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A Dublin lifestyle community hosting social and on-premise-style parties for couples and singles, including international visitors. Read the party-specific rules and secure confirmation before attending.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Event booking or member access applies
Location
Private Dublin venues disclosed to confirmed attendees

France · Grayan-et-l'Hôpital

Euronat

Naturist resort
Clothing optionalNaturist

A large family-oriented naturist holiday village in the Médoc pine forest with camping, rentals, pools, wellness facilities and direct access to a naturist Atlantic beach. Follow its naturist charter and booking rules.

Access
Resort booking
Membership
Accommodation or campsite booking applies; naturist credentials may be requested
Location
33590 Grayan-et-l'Hôpital, France

Australia · Melbourne

Harder Faster

Event producer
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A female-led Melbourne organizer producing curated lifestyle parties in private mansions for couples and women. Attendance is vetted and the location changes by event.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
Application, vetting and event booking apply
Location
Private Melbourne mansion venues

Jamaica · Negril

Hedonism II

Lifestyle resort
Clothing optionalLifestyle / swingers

An adults-only, all-inclusive, clothing-optional and lifestyle-friendly resort on Negril's Seven Mile Beach. It welcomes couples and singles and publishes accommodation, theme-event and resort-policy information.

Access
Resort booking
Membership
Adults-only booking; couples and singles are welcomed
Location
Norman Manley Boulevard, Negril, Westmoreland, Jamaica

United Kingdom · Blackpool

Infusion Blackpool

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A purpose-built private members' lifestyle club with a pool, hot tub, sauna, social areas and themed events. Check its current timetable, pricing, membership and session-specific guest rules.

Access
Door or membership
Membership
Membership is available; entry terms vary by session and event
Location
22–24 General St, Blackpool FY1 1SG, UK

Germany · Berlin

Insomnia Berlin

Nightclub
BDSM & kinkFetish nightlifeLifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A Berlin club with separate fetish/BDSM, sex-positive, swinger and queer event formats. Audience, dress and admission expectations differ by night, so use the event-specific listing.

Access
Door or ticket
Membership
No general membership; event admission applies
Location
Alt-Tempelhof 17–19, 12099 Berlin, Germany

Canada · Edmonton

Intimate Times

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

An Edmonton lifestyle club hosting Friday and Saturday member parties. Its official guidance describes a trial visit, tours, membership and separate social and play hours; verify the current calendar before attending.

Access
Members only
Membership
One trial visit is permitted before membership is required; cover charges apply
Location
17207 107 Ave NW, Edmonton, AB T5S 1E5, Canada

Ireland · Dublin

Irish Swingers Club

Private social group
Lifestyle / swingers

A Dublin organizer offering reserved lifestyle parties, introductions and selected women-only events in private city-center suites. Exact location and attendance details are supplied after booking.

Access
Reservation or event
Membership
Advance reservation is required; event formats have different eligibility
Location
Private central Dublin event suite

Canada · Vancouver

Katrina Private Home

Private social group
Lifestyle / swingers

A boutique on-premise Vancouver lifestyle club for committed couples and single women. Participation is optional; obtain current eligibility, schedule and location information from the organizer.

Access
Reservation or event
Membership
Advance registration and event confirmation are required
Location
Private Vancouver location shared with confirmed attendees

At sea · Mediterranean & other itineraries

Killing Kittens Cruises

Lifestyle cruise
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

Selected boutique lifestyle sailings connected to the Killing Kittens community, generally centered on sensual, social and curated entertainment experiences. Availability is limited; verify any current cruise through the official organizer.

Access
Cruise booking
Membership
Application or sailing-specific booking terms may apply
Location
Departure port varies by sailing

Germany · Berlin

KitKatClub

Nightclub
Fetish nightlifeSex-positive social

A Berlin nightclub known for sex-positive and fetish-oriented nights. Admission is discretionary; review the specific event, dress expectations, cash and photography policies before queuing.

Access
Door or ticket
Membership
No public membership; door discretion and event rules apply
Location
Brückenstraße 1, 10179 Berlin, Germany

South Africa · Durban

KiwiKlub Durban

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

KiwiKlub’s Durban member-party location, connected to its national swingers community. Event confirmations provide the private venue and current guest requirements.

Access
Members only
Membership
Online membership and party registration apply
Location
Private Durban club location shared with members

South Africa · Johannesburg

KiwiKlub Johannesburg

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

Part of KiwiKlub’s South African online and in-person lifestyle community, hosting member parties at an established Johannesburg on-premise venue. Confirm the current event and access instructions after joining.

Access
Members only
Membership
Online membership and party registration apply
Location
Private Johannesburg club location shared with members

United Kingdom · London

Klub Verboten

Event producer
BDSM & kinkFetish nightlife

A fetish event organization producing ticketed parties at rotating London venues, with occasional dates elsewhere. Read the event page carefully for venue, dress code, door policy and consent rules.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
Membership is optional; nonmembers may face door vetting
Location
Rotating London venues

Canada · Calgary

KNetic Club Calgary

Lifestyle club
LGBTQ+Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A licensed, LGBTQ-owned and inclusive Calgary lifestyle club offering nightlife events, workshops and sex-positive community programming for singles, couples and other relationship structures.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private membership and event tickets apply; 18+ admission
Location
Calgary, Alberta (member information provides current venue details)

United Kingdom · London

Le Boudoir Club

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A 21+ members-only ENM and lifestyle club producing more than 150 social events annually. Guests must preregister online and should verify each event’s audience, admission and dress expectations.

Access
Members only
Membership
Free online preregistration is mandatory; registration is not available at the door
Location
London E1 (full arrival details are supplied to members)

Canada · Montréal

L’Orage Club

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A longstanding Montréal private lifestyle club with licensed lounge and on-premise spaces. Its schedule distinguishes couples, single women and single-men access, so check the selected evening before attending.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and event admission apply; guest categories vary by night
Location
7700 12e Ave, Montréal, QC H2A 2Y7, Canada

Canada · Montréal

Montreal Jacks

Private social group
JO clubLGBTQ+

A Montréal men's JO social organization with scheduled private events. Review the official eligibility, language, RSVP and consent rules before attending; exact venue details are protected.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Registration and event admission apply
Location
Private Montréal event location shared with registered attendees

Canada · Toronto

Oasis Aqualounge

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A seven-day-a-week private members' spa and social club with a public event calendar. Admission categories, ID, membership and event-specific audience rules should be checked before visiting.

Access
Door or ticket
Membership
Private-club membership can be created with admission
Location
231 Mutual St, Toronto, ON M5B 2B4, Canada

Canada · Ottawa

Obsession Swing Lounge

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A licensed on-premise Ottawa lifestyle lounge for couples and selected singles. Friday and Saturday guest categories differ, so consult the official site for current membership, admission and conduct policies.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and event admission apply; audience rules vary by night
Location
1575 St Laurent Blvd, Ottawa, ON K1G, Canada

Australia · Sydney

Our Secret Spot

Lifestyle club
LGBTQ+Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A dedicated Sydney adult play-party venue welcoming couples, singles and LGBTQ+ guests through different event formats. It emphasizes consent, community and no-pressure participation.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
Advance tickets and event-specific admission rules apply
Location
Sydney, NSW (ticket holders receive current venue information)

United Kingdom · Bury / Manchester

Partners Swingers Club

Lifestyle club
BDSM & kinkLifestyle / swingers

An adults-only Bury lifestyle club with weekly themed nights, social areas, spa facilities and equipped play rooms. Couples, single women, single men and trans visitors are welcomed on eligible dates.

Access
Mixed access
Membership
Admission and guest-list requirements vary by event; bring photo ID when required
Location
Bury BL8, Greater Manchester, England

United Kingdom · Birmingham

PDI Lifestyle

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A Birmingham lifestyle community venue with licensed bars, social and dance areas, hot tub and themed rooms. Check membership, pricing and guest-list rules for the intended date.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and event admission rules apply
Location
Birmingham, England (consult the official site for current directions)

Canada · Ottawa

Probe Ottawa

Community space
BDSM & kinkEducationLGBTQ+Sex-positive social

A queer-owned private members' space in Ottawa's ByWard Market offering events, classes, social gatherings and equipped play areas. Review membership, accessibility information and the rules for each program.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and event booking apply
Location
300 & 400–41 York St, Ottawa, ON K1N 5S7, Canada

Germany · Berlin

Quälgeist Berlin e.V.

Community space
BDSM & kinkEducationLGBTQ+

A noncommercial Berlin association offering BDSM and fetish events, workshops, counseling and community programming. Check language, audience and ticket details for each event.

Access
Mixed access
Membership
Association membership is optional for many events
Location
Lankwitzer Straße 42/43, 12107 Berlin, Germany

France · Linguizzetta

Riva Bella Naturist Resort

Naturist resort
Clothing optionalNaturist

A seaside Corsican naturist resort with camping, bungalows, villas and direct beach access. Naturism operates seasonally even though accommodation may be open longer; verify dates and house rules before booking.

Access
Resort booking
Membership
Campsite, bungalow or villa booking applies
Location
Route de Riva Bella, 20230 Linguizzetta, France

United Kingdom · Carlisle area

Solway Sun Club

Naturist club
Naturist

A naturist club and campsite near Carlisle. Contact the club before visiting and follow its naturist etiquette, safeguarding and photography policies.

Access
Club visit or stay
Membership
Advance visitor or campsite arrangements apply
Location
Carlisle CA6 4EP, UK

United Kingdom · Heddon-on-the-Wall / Newcastle

Tando

Naturist club
Naturist

A North East England naturist club and grounds. It is listed as a clothing-optional community destination, not a sexual-play venue; arrange access and review club etiquette in advance.

Access
Club visit
Membership
Visitor and membership arrangements apply
Location
Heddon-on-the-Wall, Newcastle upon Tyne NE15 9QT, UK

At sea · Caribbean & international itineraries

Temptation Cruise

Lifestyle cruise
Clothing optionalLifestyle / swingers

Temptation-branded adults-only cruise charters featuring theme nights and topless-optional areas. Eligibility can differ by voyage, including couples-only sailings, so verify the current cruise's rules before booking.

Access
Cruise booking
Membership
Adults-only or couples-only terms depend on the sailing
Location
Departure port varies by sailing

Australia · Rydalmere / Sydney

The Couple Club

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingers

A long-running Sydney on-premise lifestyle club hosting scheduled parties. Check the current calendar for couples-only, single-women and selected single-men attendance, pricing and house rules.

Access
Door or event
Membership
Event eligibility and admission differ for couples and singles
Location
5 Clyde St, Rydalmere NSW 2116, Australia

Australia · Adelaide

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide

Lifestyle club
Lifestyle / swingersSex-positive social

A private Adelaide lifestyle club for adults interested in consensual non-monogamy and swinging. Its published values emphasize consent, respect and personal responsibility; request current membership and event details directly.

Access
Members only
Membership
Private-club membership and event booking apply
Location
Private Adelaide location supplied to confirmed members

At sea · Worldwide itineraries

The Swinger Cruise / TSC Cruises

Lifestyle cruise
Lifestyle / swingers

A specialist lifestyle travel organizer listing hosted and charter cruise programs, including large-scale sailings. Because offerings can overlap other cruise brands, compare the named operator, ship, charter scope and booking terms.

Access
Cruise booking
Membership
Sailing-specific booking and eligibility rules
Location
Departure port varies by sailing

United Kingdom · London / international

Torture Garden

Event producer
BDSM & kinkFetish nightlife

An international fetish, body-art and performance event producer rather than a permanent venue. Tickets, theme, location and dress expectations are published separately for each date.

Access
Ticketed events
Membership
No general membership is required
Location
Rotating venues listed per event

United Kingdom · Wirral / Liverpool

Townhouse

Lifestyle club
BDSM & kinkLGBTQ+Lifestyle / swingers

A four-floor private lifestyle and kink venue on the Wirral with a large, diverse membership. Its calendar includes couples-focused and broader community events, each with its own booking rules.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership, advance booking and event-specific eligibility apply
Location
Wirral, England (member directions provided by the club)

Canada · Vancouver

Vancouver Velvet Club

Private social group
Lifestyle / swingers

A discreet Vancouver lifestyle house-party club hosting couples-and-single-women events plus selected mixed-access dates. Guests receive the location and payment instructions after approval.

Access
RSVP event
Membership
Advance contact, invitation and guest-list confirmation are required
Location
Private Vancouver clubhouse shared with confirmed guests

New Zealand · Upper Hutt

Wellington Naturist Club

Naturist club
Naturist

A naturist park and club in Upper Hutt with grounds and accommodation. It is not presented as a lifestyle-play venue; arrange visits and review community etiquette beforehand.

Access
Club visit or stay
Membership
Advance visitor, accommodation or membership arrangements
Location
20 Molloys Road, Te Mārua, Upper Hutt 5018, New Zealand

Canada · Vancouver

Wreck Beach

Nude beach
Clothing optionalNaturist

A clothing-optional Pacific beach below the University of British Columbia reached by a long staircase. Plan for tides, cold water and the steep return climb, and treat nudity as neither consent to photography nor sexual activity.

Access
Public beach
Membership
No membership; public-park rules apply
Location
Trail 6, Pacific Spirit Regional Park, Vancouver, BC, Canada

United Kingdom · West Bromwich

Xtasia

Lifestyle club
BDSM & kinkLifestyle / swingers

A large, long-established West Midlands lifestyle venue with nightclub, spa, themed rooms, dungeon facilities and accommodation options. Review each event’s guest categories and booking requirements.

Access
Members only
Membership
Membership and event admission apply
Location
West Bromwich, West Midlands, England
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