Comment policy.

Why comments are here

Orgasmaphoria comments exist to create community, deepen education, and help adults exchange perspectives about pleasure, relationships, identity, creativity, and consent. They are not a contest for the one correct desire or way of living.

Good-faith disagreement is welcome. Moderation is not intended to erase discomfort, unpopular perspectives, or respectful criticism. It protects the conditions that let people participate without coercion, humiliation, exposure, or harm.

Comment with curiosity and respect

• Speak from your experience and leave room for experiences unlike your own.
• Address ideas and conduct without attacking a person’s identity, body, desires, orientation, relationships, or membership.
• Treat consent as specific, informed, voluntary, reversible, and contextual.
• Use content notes when a contribution introduces potentially intense material beyond the publication’s subject.
• Protect privacy. Share only information you have the right and consent to share.
• Distinguish personal experience from medical, legal, or universal claims, and welcome careful correction.

What crosses the boundary

Comments may be rejected or marked as violations when they harass, threaten, coerce, shame, discriminate, deliberately misinform about safety, sexualize minors, expose private information, impersonate another person, promote nonconsensual harm, solicit unlawful conduct, spam, manipulate engagement, or evade a prior moderation decision. Explicit language alone is not a violation when it is relevant, adult, consensual, and respectful.

Review and earned direct publishing

New commenters are reviewed before publication. Five consecutive approved comments with no rejection or violation earn direct publishing. A rejected comment resets that progress. If a published comment is marked as a violation, direct publishing is removed and progress returns to zero. Direct publishing is earned trust, not immunity from review.

Administrative archiving is neutral and does not count as a violation. Members receive a notice when a moderator makes a substantive decision and may use the contact form to request a contextual review.

Keep sensitive details intentional

Comments are visible to eligible members. Do not post legal names, contact details, private messages, event attendance, health records, exact locations, or another person’s sexual experiences without permission. If a useful point requires sensitive context, share the minimum necessary or choose a private support channel instead.