Concise definition
Queen of Spades
A self-selected lifestyle identity, often abbreviated QoS, used by some women who express a strong or exclusive sexual preference for Black men, sometimes within hotwife, cuckolding, or consensual non-monogamy dynamics. Meanings vary, and the label describes interest rather than another person's consent or availability.
Also known or searched as: QoS, QOS
This Lexicon entry defines the term without assuming interest, readiness, experience, or consent.