Kink & BDSM

What does Topping from the bottom mean?

A contested phrase for a bottom or submissive attempting to direct a scene in a way that conflicts with the negotiated dynamic. It is sometimes misused to discourage valid feedback, requests, or withdrawal of consent.

Concise definition

Topping from the bottom

A contested phrase for a bottom or submissive attempting to direct a scene in a way that conflicts with the negotiated dynamic. It is sometimes misused to discourage valid feedback, requests, or withdrawal of consent.

This Lexicon entry defines the term without assuming interest, readiness, experience, or consent.