Clear language, organized by category.

Nipple and chest stimulation through touch, pressure, temperature, or toys, negotiated in advance between consenting adults.

A sexual preference or scene style that centers oral pleasure or attention—such as giving, receiving, or watching oral sex—as the main focus of the experience.

Breath or airway-adjacent play, including anything that intentionally restricts breathing or neck/airway access. This is high-risk edge play and there is no medically safe way to do choking or strangulation.

Neck pressure or choking fantasy. Treat as edge play with explicit safety boundaries. Medically, this is not a safe activity; there is no medically safe way to choke someone, even briefly.

A consensual edge-play practice involving knives or knife-like props for visual threat, control, or sensation themes, usually without cutting or breaking skin.

A consensual BDSM scene style that uses negotiated suspense, intimidation, uncertainty, or fear responses as part of the experience—while keeping all participants safe, informed, and able to stop at any time.

A negotiated adult fantasy of resistance, coercion, or force dynamics that is only practiced because all participants have given explicit prior consent, set boundaries, and agreed on stop signals.

Erotic or cathartic use of controlled pain sensations within negotiated limits, with explicit consent, clear boundaries, and aftercare planning.

Edging is building arousal close to orgasm and then deliberately delaying release, either solo or with a partner, to extend the experience and intensify control or anticipation.

A consensual practice where partners agree to withhold orgasm, usually to build anticipation, intensify sensation, or explore control and surrender.

A consent-based fantasy about being made to orgasm repeatedly, or having orgasm control taken away, within mutually agreed limits.

A consensual orgasm-control practice where the timing or intensity of orgasm is intentionally interrupted or altered to create a distinct, often frustrating or intense sensation.

Chastity is a consensual orgasm-control practice where access to a person’s genitals, or the ability to orgasm, is restricted by agreement, ritual, or a device. In kink contexts, it is usually about control, anticipation, and power exchange—not abstinence as a moral rule.

A form of orgasm control where one person is sexually teased or brought close to release, then the release is intentionally delayed or withheld by agreement.

Erotic messaging, prompts, or written play between consenting adults.

Using a toy or stimulator that a consenting adult partner can control locally or from a distance, often to add surprise, anticipation, or a shared sense of play.

Erotic or intimate connection by phone or video call between consenting adults, usually with agreed privacy, pacing, and boundaries.

A post-scene conversation where consenting adults review what felt good, what felt off, and what support is needed next.

Self-directed recovery rituals after intense solo play or after a scene ends, used to help a person feel physically settled, emotionally grounded, and back to baseline.

An interest in giving negotiated pain, intensity, or challenge to a consenting adult for erotic, emotional, or relational satisfaction.