Clear language, organized by category.

Oral stimulation of the anus between consenting adults. Also called anilingus, analingus, or a rim job. It is a sexual practice that requires explicit consent and attention to hygiene and STI risk.

Open-hand impact play using the hand to strike a consenting adult’s buttocks or, less commonly, other fleshy areas, often for sensation, rhythm, or power-exchange play.

Impact play using a paddle, hand paddle, or similar blunt tool to deliver negotiated sensation, from light thuds to firmer strikes, within clear consent and limits.

Impact or sensation play using a flogger, usually across padded or otherwise lower-risk body areas, with agreed-upon intensity and pacing between consenting adults.

An impact-play practice in which a cane is used to deliver sharp, focused sensation, usually in a carefully negotiated scene between consenting adults.

A form of consensual impact play using an open hand on negotiated body areas, with clear limits, intensity agreements, and aftercare.

A high-energy form of kink play that uses vigorous physical contact, pressure, grappling, positioning, or controlled restraint sensations rather than tools like paddles or floggers.

Consensually watching other adults engage in erotic or intimate behavior, or being invited to observe, with clear permission and privacy boundaries.

A consensual interest in being seen, displayed, or witnessed in an erotic context by consenting adults.

Consensual erotic teasing, display, or flirtation in semi-public or public-adjacent settings where the point is the thrill of being seen, almost seen, or discreetly noticed.

Consensual taking, sharing, or keeping of sexual or kink-related photos, audio, or video, with clear agreements about who can record, who can view it, where it can be stored, and when it must be deleted.

Using agreed-upon characters, scenarios, or power dynamics to shape a scene between consenting adults.

A consensual adult roleplay involving instruction, guidance, evaluation, or authority themes, often using the social dynamics of a classroom or mentorship setting without involving actual minors or real-world coercion.

A roleplay or fantasy about meeting as unfamiliar adults, flirting anonymously, or emphasizing novelty, distance, or social surprise while staying within clear consent agreements.

Consensual roleplay involving a person or dynamic framed as having status, command, expertise, office, or formal authority. For consenting adults only.

Clinical- or examination-themed roleplay between consenting adults, often involving a doctor/patient, nurse/patient, or examiner/model dynamic, with negotiated boundaries and no actual medical treatment.

A fetish or aesthetic interest in the look, feel, scent, shine, or sound of latex or leather clothing and gear. For many adults, it is more about sensory appeal, style, and identity than any specific act.

Erotic toys are objects used by consenting adults to add sensation, novelty, or control to sexual play. They can be used alone, with a partner, or as part of a kink scene.

A vibrator is a device that uses vibration for sexual stimulation, often used solo or with a partner.

Using a harness-and-dildo or similar wearable toy for consensual penetration, role exploration, or embodied play between consenting adults.