Searchable lexicon

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Definitions focus on adult communication, consent, privacy, community, and wellbeing. Educational content is not medical or legal advice.

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Terms, not activity guides.

The Lexicon answers “what does this mean?” in a short, searchable format. It does not assess readiness or explain how to practice an activity.

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Naturism

Community

A social and cultural practice of non-sexual nudity that often emphasizes body acceptance, respect for others, and connection with nature. Customs and rules differ among communities and locations.

Also known or searched as: nudism, naturist

Negotiation

Communication

A conversation before an activity or event that covers expectations, limits, communication, safety, privacy, and how anyone can pause or stop.

Also known or searched as: planning conversation

Neo-Tantra

Culture & History

A varied group of modern movements and practices influenced by selective interpretations of Tantra along with Western esotericism, counterculture, personal-growth culture, psychotherapy, and contemporary sexuality education. Neo-Tantra often emphasizes intimacy and sexuality more strongly than historical Tantric traditions.

Also known or searched as: modern Tantra, Western Tantra

Nesting partner

Relationships

A partner with whom someone shares a home or substantial domestic responsibilities. The term describes living arrangement and entanglement without necessarily assigning emotional rank.

Also known or searched as: nesting partners

The intense excitement, focus, and infatuation that can accompany a new relationship. Often shortened to NRE, it can be enjoyable while also affecting attention, judgment, time management, and existing commitments.

Also known or searched as: NRE

An approach to polyamory that avoids assigning predetermined ranks or blanket priority among partners. It does not mean every relationship receives identical time, commitments, or responsibilities.

Also known or searched as: nonhierarchical polyamory, non-hierarchical poly

A consensual adult role in which someone is treated as an object, doll, toy, display, or function for a defined scene or dynamic. The fantasy does not diminish the person's real agency or rights.

Also known or searched as: toy role, doll role, object role

Lifestyle venue terms distinguishing events where sexual activity is permitted at the venue from social-only events where it is not. House rules still determine what is allowed at any specific event.

Also known or searched as: on-premise, off-premise, on premises, off premises

One-penis policy

Relationships

An agreement or rule that permits a partner to have additional relationships with women or some non-men but not with other men or people with penises. Often shortened to OPP, it is contested because it may reflect gendered double standards, trans exclusion, or unequal control.

Also known or searched as: OPP, one penis policy

Open relationship

Relationships

A relationship in which partners agree that one or more of them may have sexual or romantic connections with other people. The permissions, limits, and degree of disclosure are defined by the people involved.

Also known or searched as: open relationships

Oral sex

Sexual activities

Sexual stimulation of another person's genitals or anus using the mouth, lips, or tongue. Specific forms include fellatio, cunnilingus, and anilingus.

Also known or searched as: oral Explore context in the Kink Catalog

Orgasm gap

Sexual Wellness

A documented difference in reported orgasm frequency between groups, often discussed in relation to gender and sexual orientation. Its size depends on the population, relationship context, sexual activities measured, and wording of the study, so it should not be treated as one universal percentage.

Also known or searched as: pleasure gap, orgasm disparity

Authority titles used in some ownership, pet-play, protocol, or training dynamics. Each title can imply different responsibilities and must be defined by the participants; none creates legal ownership or unrestricted control.

Also known or searched as: owner, handler, trainer Explore context in the Kink Catalog

A BDSM risk framework, often shortened to PRICK, that emphasizes informed consent and each participant's responsibility to communicate, assess risk, and act within their abilities. Responsibility remains shared and does not excuse coercion or boundary violations.

Also known or searched as: PRICK

Pet

Kink & BDSM

A consenting adult who adopts an animal-inspired identity, behavior, or relationship role in pet play. The role may involve playfulness, care, training, embodiment, or power exchange.

Also known or searched as: pet role Explore context in the Kink Catalog

Play party

Community

A private or organized adult gathering where socializing and permitted consensual activities may occur under stated house rules and privacy expectations.

Also known or searched as: play parties

Polyamory

Relationships

A form of consensual non-monogamy that allows for more than one intimate or romantic relationship with the knowledge and agreement of everyone involved.

Also known or searched as: polyamorous Explore context in the Kink Catalog